We put real effort into farewells. When someone leaves after five, ten or twenty years, we gather people together, organise the food, take the photos and say something about what they meant to the team. We mark the relationship properly.
Now think about the other end. Someone arrives on their first day and gets a lanyard, a folder, a slideshow and directions to their desk. Then we expect them to find their feet.
None of that is wrong. The paperwork matters, and there are important employment, safety and workplace requirements to cover when someone starts. It is not the whole point of orientation. The question worth sitting with is a simple one. What if we put a little more thought into the beginning of the relationship, not just the end of it?
What is orientation actually for?
Most orientation, or employee induction as it is often called, gets measured by what was covered. Did we get through the slides? Did they sign the forms? Tick, tick, done.
A better question is what someone should be able to do, understand and feel by the time they walk out at the end of day one. That shifts the focus from delivering information to setting a person up to actually work.
There are three things a good orientation can do here. Not steps in order, more like three conditions that hold each other up. Ask. Belong. Practise.
Ask
I use the word humility carefully here, because it gets misread. I do not mean “know your place.” I mean having enough confidence to say, “I don't know. Can you show me?”
That matters more than it sounds. Professional experience and organisational experience are not the same thing. Someone can be excellent at their job and still have no idea how your systems, workflows or local processes work. They may know the profession extremely well. They still don't know your version of it yet.
Here is the catch. On a first day, most people want to look capable. That instinct, wanting to seem like they already belong, is exactly what stops them asking. So it is not enough to end the session with “any questions?” and move on. Asking has to be made normal, out loud.
That can be as simple as the language a manager or buddy uses.
“You're expected to ask questions here.” “I'd rather you check than guess.” “If something doesn't make sense, tell us.”
Small lines. But they tell a nervous new person that not knowing something is not a failure. It is the job.
Belong
The next one is quieter, and easy to skip. A new person should feel that people noticed they arrived.
By the end of the day they should know who their people are, who to go to for different things, who their buddy is, and roughly where they fit in the team. Not the org chart. The real map. Who actually helps when something goes sideways.
This is where it helps to stop treating orientation as one person's job. When it all sits with HR or a single manager, belonging becomes a form. When the team shares it, belonging becomes real, because the new person has met the people they will actually work with.
One honest warning though. A buddy system only works if the buddy is set up to succeed. If you hand someone the title, then leave them flat out with no time to actually help, you have not created belonging. You have created guilt for them and confusion for the new starter. Give the buddy the time and the permission, not just the label.
Practise
This is the one that tends to be missing, and it is probably the most useful.
If the job requires someone to do it, orientation should probably give them a chance to do it. Not hear about it. Do it.
Most of us have sat through a session where someone explained a task on a screen, then asked, “Does that make sense?” And we nodded. Of course we nodded. Nodding is easy. Nodding is not the same as being able to do the thing.
Swap the question. Instead of “Does that make sense?”, try “Show me how you would do it.”
That one change turns a passive session into a real one. Show them. Let them try. Give feedback. Let them try again. It takes longer on the day. It saves far more later.
It works across pretty much any job:
- enter a real job into the system
- handle a mock customer complaint
- build a basic report
- escalate an issue up the line
- walk through a conversation they will have often
In a hospital, that might mean giving someone a mock handover, escalation, documentation task or difficult conversation to run through, rather than talking them through how it works and hoping it lands the first time it actually counts. The setting changes. The principle does not.
One thing keeps this manageable. You do not have to practise everything on day one. Pick the few tasks a new starter will actually be judged on in their first week, the high-frequency or high-stakes ones, and make sure those get a real go. That is where practice earns its place, and it stops day one turning into a firehose.
There is some research support for this. A 2023 systematic review by Frögéli and colleagues found that structured, supported on-the-job training had the strongest current evidence for helping new employees get clear on their role and master their tasks, although the authors were honest that the overall certainty of that evidence is still low. In plain terms, letting people do the work, with support, tends to beat telling them about the work. It is not a guarantee. It is a sensible bet.
Before you manage the performance, check the preparation
Here is where this connects to something bigger.
Completion is not readiness. A signed checklist proves information was delivered. It does not prove the person understood it, can do the work, or feels safe asking for help.
That matters most weeks or months later, when a leader looks at someone who is struggling and starts reaching for performance management. Before you go there, it is worth running a few quick checks.
- Was the expectation actually clear?
- Were they shown what good looks like?
- Did they get a real chance to practise?
- Did they get useful feedback?
If all of that happened and the issue continues, then accountability may well be fair. But if it did not, you might be managing a training or clarity gap as though it were a behaviour problem. Those are very different situations, and they need very different responses.
I have written about the “were they ever taught?” side of this in more depth in They Should Know This by Now. But Were They Ever Taught?. And if the real question is whether a moment calls for managing, coaching or something else, When to Manage, When to Lead works through choosing the right mode.
Day one is not the whole job
It is worth being clear about a distinction that often gets blurred. In a lot of Australian workplaces the words orientation, induction and onboarding get used interchangeably, but they are not the same thing.
Orientation and induction usually happen at the start, often day one. Onboarding happens over time. One day is a lot of new information for anyone to absorb. That is not a character flaw, it is how memory works.
This is where spacing helps. Research on learning, including work summarised in Nature Reviews Psychology in 2022, consistently supports spreading things out and revisiting them rather than cramming everything into one hit. So the strongest onboarding keeps going after day one. Buddy check-ins. Revisiting the key tasks. A bit more practice once the nerves have settled.
There is also a question worth asking your recent starters a few weeks or months in:
“What did we tell you during orientation that turned out to be different once you actually started?”
That does two things. It helps the new person. And it quietly turns your onboarding into organisational learning, because it shows you where the official version and the real version have drifted apart.
What you can do tomorrow
Not everyone reading this runs their workplace's new starter induction. Most people cannot rewrite the whole system. You can still change your corner of it.
If you design or deliver onboarding, pick the handful of tasks a new starter will be judged on in week one and build real practice into those. Replace “any questions?” with “show me how you'd do it.”
If you are the buddy or the team leader without the authority to change anything official, you can still make asking normal, introduce the new person around properly, and give them one genuine go at a real task with feedback beside them. That is belonging and practice, done small.
And if you are the new starter yourself, it is completely fine to say, “I don't know. Can you show me?” A good workplace should make room for that.
About Daniel Halls
Dan Halls is an emergency nurse, leadership educator and the founder of Daniel Halls Co in Melbourne. He runs practical human skills training for teams across Melbourne and Victoria, helping people communicate better, lead with more confidence, and work better together.
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FAQ
What is the difference between orientation, induction and onboarding?
Orientation and induction usually refer to the early, often first-day process of introducing someone to the workplace, the rules and the basics. Onboarding is the longer process of getting them genuinely up to speed over weeks or months. Day one is a start, not the finish.
How do you make orientation less overwhelming?
Stop trying to cover everything at once. Focus day one on the few things a person needs to feel safe and get started, then space the rest out with follow-ups, check-ins and more practice over the following weeks.
Is a buddy system enough on its own?
A buddy helps, but only if the buddy has the time and permission to actually do it. A name on a form is not support. Give the buddy room to help, and make it a shared team effort rather than one person's extra task.
How do you know if orientation actually worked?
Rather than measuring completion, check how the person feels and what they can do. Three simple statements are a good start: I feel comfortable asking when I'm unsure. I know who I can go to. I've had a chance to practise the important early tasks.
A useful way to judge a first day
Those three statements are worth keeping:
I feel comfortable asking when I'm unsure. I know who I can go to. I've had a chance to practise the important early tasks.
Maybe that is a useful way to judge a first day.
Not simply: Did we get through orientation?
But: Did we actually help this person get started?
Because making it safe to ask, helping people belong and giving them a chance to practise are not extras around the work.
They are part of how people learn to do the work well.
If your team is working through communication, leadership, feedback or the everyday human skills that sit behind moments like these, you can see the Daniel Halls Co. workshops here. Or, if you're not sure what would be useful, start with a conversation.
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